When I started researching I decided to take a look at some of my fellow classmates resources and reflections on their own blogs, I really liked what I saw and it helped give me a better idea of what to look at, and what to keep in mind. ( Thank you, my friends. )
I found a number of resources for guidance techniques for young children, and below are the six guidance techniques that I have chosen as some of my favorites that I would use to guide young children, in a center classroom or at home.
Some of the guidance techniques that I have come across in my research are new to me, such as changing the environment...I've done this on occasion, though not usually intentionally thinking " I am going to facilitate their behavioral development in this way." I was usually just making adjustments, and they led to unintentional, though certainly not unwelcome behavioral improvements. Some of these guidance techniques are not so new to me, techniques such as redirecting and offering substitutes, this is one of my go to solutions, especially for younger children.
Redirection can be very effective in diffusing a volatile situation, sometimes all a child needs is a hug and someone to show them a new activity.
I have included the links to the articles that I used as my resources at the bottom of the page.
Ignore Non-Disruptive Inappropriate Behavior
Children who behave inappropriately often receive the most attention from adults. Children who chronically misbehave are usually convinced that the only way they can get attention is through negative actions. While some behaviors cannot be ignored (unsafe or hurtful actions), some simply annoying ones can be safely overlooked. By ignoring these behaviors, the child will eventually see there is no gain in using that language or that behavior, and it may not be repeated.
- Limit attention to children who are used to negative responses from adults.
- "Catch the child being good" and then use effective praise when children are engaging in desired behaviors. Too often children get attention for inappropriate behaviors and are left alone when they are playing appropriately or when things are quiet and controlled in early childhood settings.
Offer Choices
Offering choices gives children some control over their own behavior, shows respect for them as individuals, and encourages independence. When children are given options to choose from, they are more likely to cooperate and meet classroom expectations.
"It's time to clean up the house area. Which will you put away, the dishes or the dolls?"
Change the Environment to Promote Behavior Changes.
Wise caregivers look for the causes of misbehavior.Are there squabbles over too few toys? Are children climbing because materials are out of reach? Are children whiny and cranky because meals and naptimes are too late? Consider changes in the environment that can make you less irritated and the children less frustrated.
• Toddler Hannah spills Hannah uses a tall, narrow Hannah uses a heavy, broad-bottomed her milk—every day. plastic cup. cup.
• Carlos and Sam fight There are 10 cardboard There are 40 blocks in a variety of shapes. over blocks. stacking blocks.
• Milton can’t find his There is one jumbled shelf unit Each child has a labeled hook and cubby shoes. for children’s items. for storing personal items.
Redirect and Offer Acceptable Substitutes
- Give children acceptable alternatives rather than telling them what they cannot choose.
- Privately (quietly so just that child can hear) remind the child of the classroom rule and then redirect by offering an alternative or giving a choice."Mohammed, it's not safe to pull the rolling pin away from Mariah. Mariah is using that rolling pin right now. Pick another toy until she is done.""Bobbie is sitting there, Susie. Remember, there is only one child on a carpet square. You need to find another seat. Tomorrow you can have a turn sitting next to me.""Blocks are for building. You can make a house or a barn or a road for the trucks."
- When necessary, remove the child from the problem area and redirect to another activity."Julie, you're having trouble sharing the blocks. I can't let you hurt other people by pushing. It's not so crowded at the water table. I think you might have fun there. We have some new toys there. Let's go to the water table."
Facilitate Problem Solving with Children
Children can be taught a problem-solving process to resolve interpersonal conflicts. Below are ways teachers can help children to work through five steps to problem solving:
- What is the problem?
- What can you do?
- What might happen if . . . ?
- Choose a solution and use it.
- Is it working?
Show Respect. Showing the child respect will help her know she is being guided not punished. The following three tactics will help: 1) Move to the child, instead of calling over to her; 2) Squat or kneel to her level; and 3) Look kindly into her eyes.
http://circle.adventist.org/files/jae/en/jae200568023707.pdf
http://www.education.com/reference/article/positive-guidance-techniques/